Cult of the Lamb Marriage Guide

The Wedding ritual icon in Cult of the Lamb
Followers / Wedding Ritual

The ritual that marries a follower for +30 Faith, unlocks daily Loyalty from kissing, and gets very jealous once you overdo it.

Reward: +30 FaithKiss: +10 Loyalty/dayRisk: Jealousy

Marriage in Cult of the Lamb is a Faith engine that turns jealous the moment you get greedy. Each Wedding ritual hands you +30 Faith and unlocks a daily kiss that pumps Loyalty, but every extra spouse sulks when you marry someone new.

It lives in your teachings. According to the wiki, the Wedding is part of the Law and Order 2 Doctrines, where you choose between it and the Fight Pit ritual.

It scales until it does not. The wiki notes married followers lose you 5 Faith each out of jealousy per new wedding, so past a point the ritual costs more Faith than it gives.

This guide covers how the Wedding ritual works, the Loyalty from kissing, managing jealousy across many spouses, and how to unmarry a follower.

  • What it is Wedding icon A ritual to marry a follower, for +30 Faith each.
  • The perk Kiss icon A daily Kiss that adds +10 Loyalty to your spouse.
  • The catch Jealousy icon Existing spouses get jealous, losing 5 Faith each.
  • First marriage Tarot icon The Lovers II Tarot card, worth 2 blue hearts.

How Marriage Works

Marriage is a ritual you unlock through your teachings. Per the wiki, the Wedding is a Law and Order 2 Doctrines icon Doctrine ritual, chosen against the Fight Pit, and it costs 75 Bone with a three-day cooldown.

Each wedding pays out immediately. According to the wiki, marrying a Followers icon follower grants +30 Faith, and the married follower gets a ring icon by their name.

Your first wedding is a bonus. The wiki states the first time you marry anyone you receive the Tarot icon The Lovers II Tarot card, which grants two extra Blue hearts icon blue hearts on crusades.

Kissing and Loyalty

Marriage is not just a one-time Faith bump. Per the wiki, a married follower gains a Kiss action you can perform once a day, adding +10 Loyalty to that spouse every time.

Enough kisses change them. According to the wiki, kissing a spouse enough earns them the Happily Married Traits icon trait, a permanent marker of a well-tended marriage.

It is a steady Loyalty source. Ten Loyalty per day per spouse adds up fast, so a few carefully tended marriages keep key Followers icon followers devoted with almost no effort.

Build Tip

Marry the followers you most want loyal. In practice the daily Kiss is a reliable +10 Loyalty, so wedding a hard-working or high-value follower keeps them content far more cheaply than repeated rituals.

Managing Jealousy

The catch with marriage is jealousy. Per the wiki, every existing spouse loses you 5 Faith out of jealousy each time you perform a new Wedding, and once you have six or more spouses that loss outweighs the +30 the ritual gives.

Multiple spouses also feud. According to the wiki, marriage partners may constantly fight each other out of jealousy unless they have the Polyamorous icon Polyamorous trait, which stops them getting jealous entirely.

There are clever ways around it. The wiki lists several: deceased or Polyamorous spouses never get jealous, resurrecting a spouse after the ritual keeps them calm, and marrying while the Brainwashing Ritual is active negates the jealousy penalty outright.

GainFaith icon +30 Faith per wedding
LossJealousy icon -5 Faith per existing spouse (jealousy)
Break-evenWarning icon Around six spouses (jealousy outweighs the gain)

Unmarrying and Outfits

You can undo a marriage. Per the wiki, since the Woolhaven update you unmarry a spouse by opening the Wedding ritual and selecting them again, which also removes their Happily Married trait.

Weddings unlock special clothing. According to the wiki, performing three Weddings unlocks the Wedding Dress and Wedding Suit, two Unique Outfits icon outfits you craft at the Tailor for a single follower each.

Resurrection interacts with marriage too. The wiki notes that if a spouse dies, Resurrection icon resurrecting them after the marriage ritual keeps them from becoming jealous, and resurrected spouses do not need to be married again.

Trivia

Marriage mirrors the darker rituals. Per the wiki, the choice between the Wedding and Fight Pit rituals parallels the Sin 2 choice between the Rite of Wrath and Rite of Lust, with marriage being the loving union to the Rite of Lust's carnal one.

It clashes with breeding. According to the wiki, married followers become poor mating partners, so it is not recommended to wed followers you plan to use in the Mating Tent icon Mating Tent.

You picked Fight Pit first? You can still marry. The wiki notes that if you chose the Fight Pit ritual, you can unlock the Wedding ritual later with a Forgotten Commandment icon Commandment Stone.

Common Mistakes

  1. Marrying too many followers. Per the wiki, past six spouses the jealousy Faith loss outweighs the +30 gain, so mass weddings backfire.
  2. Ignoring the Kiss action. A daily kiss is +10 Loyalty per spouse. Skipping it wastes the main long-term perk of marriage.
  3. Wedding your breeders. Married followers mate poorly, so keep Mating Tent partners single.
  4. Forgetting jealousy workarounds. Polyamorous spouses, the Brainwashing Ritual, and post-ritual resurrection all cancel jealousy. Use them for big polygamous cults.

Marriage FAQ

How does marriage work in Cult of the Lamb?

Marriage is the Wedding ritual. Per the wiki, it is a Law and Order 2 Doctrine ritual that marries a follower for +30 Faith, costs 75 Bone with a three-day cooldown, and gives the spouse a ring icon and a daily Kiss action.

What do you get for marrying a follower?

Faith, Loyalty, and a Tarot card. According to the wiki, each wedding grants +30 Faith, the spouse gains a daily Kiss worth +10 Loyalty, and your first marriage awards The Lovers II Tarot card.

How many followers can you marry?

As many as you like, but with a limit in practice. Per the wiki, existing spouses lose you 5 Faith each from jealousy per new wedding, and past about six spouses that loss outweighs the ritual's +30 gain.

What does kissing a spouse do?

It builds Loyalty. The wiki specifies the Kiss action adds +10 Loyalty per day to a married follower, and kissing them enough earns the Happily Married trait.

How do you stop marriage jealousy?

Several ways. According to the wiki, Polyamorous or deceased spouses never get jealous, resurrecting a spouse after the ritual keeps them calm, and marrying during the Brainwashing Ritual negates the jealousy penalty.

Can you unmarry a follower?

Yes, since Woolhaven. Per the wiki, you unmarry a spouse by opening the Wedding ritual and selecting them again, which also removes their Happily Married trait.

How do you unlock the wedding outfits?

By marrying repeatedly. The wiki notes that performing three Weddings unlocks the Wedding Dress and Wedding Suit, two Unique Robes crafted at the Tailor for one follower each.

Should you marry followers you breed?

No. According to the wiki, married followers make poor mating partners, so it is not recommended to wed followers you intend to use in the Mating Tent.

More Cult of the Lamb Guides

Marriage is one of the cult's biggest Faith and Loyalty levers. These guides cover the doctrines it lives in, the outfits it unlocks, and the loyal flock it helps you build.

Sources

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